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Depression is...

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Image: myDr Depression is... feeling alone in a room full of people feeling like you don’t belong feeling an overbearing guilt for the way you behave and the person you are feeling like you can’t connect with the close people in your life feeling like you have to fight it alone feeling like you don’t have answers to questions until it’s too late to answer them feeling like a heavy burden to everyone around you feeling like it’s all your fault feeling like there is no end to it feeling despair when work mounts up feeling furious at people who try to normalise mental ill health to make themselves feel unhindered feeling indecisive about what’s right for you and what’s wrong for you feeling like you can’t answer the phone. Even the office phone feeling anxious when you bump into someone you should say hello to feeling trapped in social situations feeling no desire to eat three meals a day feeling like you can’t be bothered to shower or take the bins out feeling exhausted because you have

An Immortal Life? Nah, I'm Alright Thanks.

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Image credit:  Medium Living an immortal life would be ultimately meaningless. There, I said it! Let’s talk about why. I’ll go about defending this claim by first detailing what it is to live a meaningful life, whether happy or otherwise, then go on to extend those thoughts into considerations of immortality. I’ll also propose that an evil life is not necessarily meaningless, before moving on to begin exploring how death is paramount to the meaningfulness of a life. Possible counter responses will then be discussed in favour of a meaningful immortal existence, but be repeatedly quashed throughout, before the meaninglessness of an immortal life is further strengthened by perplexing examples of the boredom problem — and how this ultimately destroys the prospect of a meaningful immortal existence. A meaningful mortal life can be considered in more ways than one. It is possible to consider a life being meaningful where the bearer is successfully growing with relevant accomplishments on th

A Serviceman and a Governor

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(img:Brookings) The challenging and rewarding world of School Governance while serving in the Armed Forces. “ …Do you think your profession helps? Should we be encouraging more military to help in this area because we are good at assessment and report type work?… ” ~ @puddlepirateltd These questions were a response to a tweet that I sent regarding a small win I’d had as a School Governor. And in short, absolutely. I firmly believe our profession helps and that we should encourage more military personnel to help in this area. Why? “ If leaders want to impart knowledge, they first need to be on a continual path of progression . ” I stand behind this way of thinking, and I’m of the belief that if you can do something for others you should ( R2P , anyone?).  For me, there’s a significant pull towards improving the lives of others. Let me explain a little. Coming from a poverty-stricken background I left school with seven D grades and one C at GCSE. But, I got a lucky break (or more to the

LONG READ: Spine tingling art and Hume? Yep.

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           Image: ScreenGeek For many centuries people have had an appetite for spine-tingling narrative art. Some of which brings about pain and aims to stimulate negatively charged emotions. As such, it becomes perplexing as to why it is acceptable for people to deliberately seek experiences through art which can, among other apparently negative responses, shock, sadden and frighten. Rational thinking dictates that people would steer clear of such experiences in their day to day lives. Yet, they actively seek out said experiences through artworks. Therein holds the paradox of painful art. David Hume’s solution to the paradox of painful art offers that pain is converted into pleasure. This essay disagrees. To defend this, a number of flaws will be exploited and discussed in order to prove that Hume does not resolve the paradox. Ultimately this essay will convey that the problem is multifaceted and complex, and requires far more than his broad explanation to the problem.     In philoso

BOOK REVIEW: Leadersights - Creating Great Leaders Who Create Great Workplaces by David Veech

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Leadersights: Creating Great Leaders Who Create Great Workplaces by David Veech      Firstly, I admire the genuine honesty that this book admirably starts with the author’s own rejection of any idea that ‘this book is different’ and then reaffirming in the epilogue that ‘this isn’t earth-shattering’… bold and brilliant. If we’re going to lead well, we need to do so with humility and an unwavering willingness to drop any ego traits that stifle learning. Without David Veech’s own transparency regarding this his key concepts, which act as a golden thread throughout the book, might quickly lose credibility. The book’s three ‘Leadersight’ categories act as a guiding handrail for leaders: Learning, Loving, and Letting go — all of which go hand in hand with leadership ‘greatness’. The author further sets the conditions to have his impact by being bolder still; by telling the reader that everything they’re doing now is ‘wrong’. Awesome. A wake up call so many leaders need; a punchy starting po

LONG READ: What’s with the hubris of English?

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The role of English is intricately bound by a multitude of power relation issues, making it a politically controversial phenomenon. This article will show that the role of English is a political issue, how it has developed into a virtually universal skill to which education is shackled, and how English education and globalisation work hand in hand to further cement the status of English in the world we live in whilst conversely remaining disputed and contended. Subsequently, this article will discuss contested views on language policies and power struggles, as well as the conflict and tensions that ultimately derive from a lack of trust where English has been established. Also, a past Malaysian language policy will be explored to allude to the controversial outcome of using English. Furthermore, accreditation of English in a professional, educational and immigration context will be weighed up. The rise of spoken and written English in Finland leads to a debate in itself. Here, where l

BLOG: We need to talk about Followership!

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Having recently been asked an interesting question (on Twitter) by and after a chat via DM to a couple of other Twitter followers; here’s my condensed take on the subject. While the below pasted tweet was intended as leadership-orientated, with the would-be reader as the subject encouraged to think; it was suggested to consider the ‘follower’ angle... and rightly so. The leader could be the best in the world, but without their followers they’re nothing. "Your subordinates do 1 of 4 things when you’re not around: [1] Boast about you to peers in other Depts/Units [2] Correct others when you’re being discussed in a negative way [3] Go quiet when you’re being discussed in a negative way [4] Destroy you behind your back You own this. Fite me" Previously, as Retention SNCO, I was too aware that a common gripe with service leavers was a chronic lack of appreciation. In my honest opinion this permeates across a lot of the organisation. We have to celebrate successes, not always down

BOOK REVIEW: Mission Command II: The Who, What, Where, When and Why: An Anthology, by Donald E. Vandergriff

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This review was first published by the  thearmyleader.co.uk     Published in February 2019, this book is the second volume of Donald Vandergriff and Stephen Webber’s  Mission Command  series, following on from their first edition published in 2017.  Mission Command II: The Who, What, Where, When and Why: An Anthology  (known by its abbreviated title  MC2)  consists of a diverse and complementary collection of essays on the concept of Mission Command. At its core, Mission Command is a philosophy that tells subordinates what to achieve but not how to do it – subordinates control how best to achieve the commanders’ intent. It is an approach used by the UK Armed Forces that decentralises command by empowering subordinates, at every level, to act freely within specified constraints to achieve success. The anthology draws eighteen authors together, many of them serving or retired officers from the USA, Norway and the UK (including one Non-Commissioned Officer), along with historians and logi

BOOK REVIEW: Leadership is Language: The Hidden Power of What You Say – and What You Don’t. By L. David Marquet

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This review was first co-published by the  Centre for Army Leadership  and  Wavell Room  in June 2020. To open with a bold statement, of all the thousands of leadership books out there, every single one of them should be supplemented with  Leadership is Language  by L. David Marquet. In spite of some expectations to the contrary, what is leadership if it is not language? A powerful thing about leadership is that if you think about the words you choose to use, as is the focus of this book, you can change the world around you. Leadership is Language drives home the idea that leadership is about people, and the author argues that leaders cannot lead effectively without an appropriately balanced interplay using words. A quick assumption about this book might be that it perpetuates overly soft, sympathetic, sensitive leadership approaches. It does not. Rather, it is about the leader detaching themselves from notions of invulnerability, certainty, coercion, and conformity. In term